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No! To a curfew on women in Zimbabwe

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Friday, July 27th, 2012 by Zanele Manhenga

I think we are really regressing as a nation sometimes, what’s with men lobbying for women to be indoors by six o’clock? We cannot go back to the medieval era when women like children were meant to be seen only and not heard. Giving women a curfew is meant to alleviate prostitution they say. Bakers Inn will cease to bake bread the day the bread does not have consumers. The same way prostitution will end when men stop consuming the female product. If this is passed as a law it is going to be disastrous for women like me whose industry strives at night. I am a musician and performer who will be jobless. What other option of work will I have for a job? If the majority of women whom I know work long hours in offices have to be home by six and have no husbands or any other help to make ends meet, how will they survive? Can you imagine the bulk of women jobless wanting to put food on the table for their children and other persons under their care? Women often have more people to take care of than men do, imagine the pressure that this woman will have? If she is not going to be a commercial sex worker she is going to prostitute to her husband, boyfriend, lover or any other man in her life in the comfort of her house and not on the street corner. Prostitution by my definition is having sex in exchange for money or up keep. Putting a curfew on women will not stop prostitution. Instead it will make it rise. Prostitution is not going to be alleviated by this but is going to come to our homes as our mothers, sisters and all the female relations will sleep with men in their lives just to make him happy in hope he will leave a dollar for bread. Need I remind men out there that prostitution knows no time of the day? There are other ways prostitution can be alleviated. I don’t see how imposing a curfew on women will help.

Enlarge your life

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Thursday, July 26th, 2012 by Bev Clark

Perhaps the biggest tragedy in our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns. . . . We may want to love other people without holding back, to feel authentic, to breathe in the beauty around us, to dance and sing. Yet each day we listen to inner voices that keep our life small. – Tara Brach

Dreaming of a better way

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Tuesday, July 24th, 2012 by Bev Clark

How true is this.

Maybe I’m a dreamer, but I wish mental health care were as easy to get as, say, a gun.
- a tweet from Andy Borowitz

Living

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Tuesday, July 24th, 2012 by Bev Clark

I want to hear raucous music, to see faces, to brush against bodies, to drink fiery benedictine. Beautiful women and handsome men arouse fierce desires in me. I want to dance. I want drugs. I want to know perverse people, to be intimate with them. I never look at naive faces. I want to bite into life, and to be torn by it. – Anais Nin

Authenticity

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Friday, July 20th, 2012 by Bev Clark

From an interview with actress, Susan Sarandon:

What’s the signifcance of that tattoo on your wrist?
It’s “A N D A N D”: “a new dawn, a new day”. It reminds me that whatever happens you can’t assume anything. It’s important to surround yourself with people who are living authentic lives.

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Mandela’s birthday

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Wednesday, July 18th, 2012 by Bev Clark

Here’s a text message I just got:

Just had an irritating encounter with a cop … it’s Mandela’s birthday … police should spend 67 minutes helping the public, not harassing them.