Comments on: You, my friend, are a rapist http://www.kubatanablogs.net/kubatana/you-my-friend-are-a-rapist/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-my-friend-are-a-rapist Kubatana.net speaks out from Zimbabwe Tue, 03 Dec 2013 13:53:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5 By: Joe Black http://www.kubatanablogs.net/kubatana/you-my-friend-are-a-rapist/#comment-62550 Joe Black Mon, 07 Jan 2008 15:00:18 +0000 http://kubatanablogs.net/kubatana/?p=315#comment-62550 Of course there is … is there a difference in your analysis between rape being an act and rape being a process?

]]> By: Brenda Burrell http://www.kubatanablogs.net/kubatana/you-my-friend-are-a-rapist/#comment-61593 Brenda Burrell Wed, 02 Jan 2008 03:35:32 +0000 http://kubatanablogs.net/kubatana/?p=315#comment-61593 Joe:

Is there a difference in your analysis between deliberately coercive sex (rape) and circumstances where sex is the intended and forethought outcome of other coercive behaviours?

]]> By: Joe Black http://www.kubatanablogs.net/kubatana/you-my-friend-are-a-rapist/#comment-59178 Joe Black Wed, 19 Dec 2007 17:27:06 +0000 http://kubatanablogs.net/kubatana/?p=315#comment-59178 Fine. I’m a Zimbabwean man, and consider myself pretty open-minded. But let’s not be stupid. We cannot be given all the responsibility. If women think “oh okay, it’s all his fault” and take no bullets, they’ll never get anywhere.

So here are my two cents.

1. You are a dumb whore if you get drunk and have sex with him.
2. You are a whore if you get so drunk a guy finds you and has sex with you.
3. Again. Your drunkeness is no excuse.
13. You are a dumbass if you’re nagged into sex.
26. If you’re a friend of his, you can still be raped.
27. If you had sex with him the night before and get pressured into it anyway, then you’re a fool.
28. If you’re his wife, you can still be raped. Otherwise, conjugal rights anyone?
30. “If she’s had sex with you hundreds of times before but doesn’t want to on the 101st time, then you’re a rapist.” Only if it’s actually rape, right? Agreed.
40. If you’ve fucked every man in a 10 square miles radius and you don’t want to fuck him but you have sex with him anyway, then you’re a whore.

I’m not condoning ACTUAL rape. But if you’re too drunk to notice – quit drinking.

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